A Very Cancelled Christmas | Week 1 | Pastor Ben Pierce

Canceling Christmas Conflict: Finding Peace in a Chaotic Season

As we embark on the Christmas season, many of us face the challenge of unresolved conflicts that can overshadow the joy of this special time. In this blog, we will explore how to identify and confront these conflicts, ensuring that they do not cancel the true essence of Christmas.

Introduction to the Series

Welcome to our Christmas series, where we tackle the theme of a “very canceled Christmas.” While Christmas itself is not canceled, various forces in life can attempt to overshadow what God intends for this joyful season. Throughout December, we will explore how to resist these forces and allow the true spirit of Christmas to flourish in our families and lives.

Remembering Josie and Finding Hope

This season is particularly poignant as we remember Josie, a beloved member of our community who recently passed away. Her absence leaves a void, yet we can find hope in celebrating her life. As we gather to honour her legacy, let us also extend love and support to those grieving, including Pastor Brian, her husband. Remember, while we mourn, we can also rejoice in the eternal peace that comes from faith.

The Reality of Christmas Conflict

As we approach Christmas, it’s essential to acknowledge that this season isn’t joyful for everyone. Conflicts often arise, be it family issues or interpersonal tensions. Many of us have family dynamics that can lead to uncomfortable gatherings, and it’s vital to confront these challenges rather than ignore them.

The Danger of Canceling Christmas

In a world where it’s easy to cancel relationships and traditions, we must be cautious not to let conflict cancel our Christmas spirit. The pressures of the season can lead to exhaustion and resentment, detracting from the joy of celebrating the birth of Christ. Instead of succumbing to these pressures, let’s focus on creating a joyful atmosphere and cherishing our time together.

Types of Conflict During the Holidays

• Family Conflicts: Disagreements and long-standing issues can resurface during family gatherings.
• Financial Strains: The pressure to spend can lead to stress and conflict over money matters.
• Social Media Tensions: Online interactions can escalate conflicts as differing opinions clash.
• Unresolved Grievances: Past conflicts that have been swept under the rug can rear their heads during the holidays.

The Spiritual Battle Behind Conflict

Underlying many conflicts is a spiritual battle that seeks to disrupt our peace. This season, we must remember that conflict often stems from a greater adversary aiming to divert our focus from Christ. The original Christmas story itself was fraught with conflict, from Mary’s unexpected pregnancy to King Herod’s jealousy and violence. We must be vigilant against these spiritual forces and seek God’s guidance to navigate through the chaos.

Three Types of Conflict

Understanding the types of conflict we may face during the Christmas season is crucial. There are three primary categories:

• Inner Conflict: This encompasses personal turmoil, insecurities, and fears that can overshadow our joy. Many people struggle internally during a time that is meant for peace and goodwill.
• Interpersonal Conflict: These conflicts arise between individuals, often within families or among friends. The pressure of the holiday season can exacerbate tensions, leading to disputes that may have been simmering beneath the surface.
• International Conflict: On a larger scale, global conflicts can also impact our thoughts and feelings during the holidays. The chaos in the world can be overwhelming, making it difficult to focus on the peace that Christmas represents.

First Step: Don’t Be Afraid of Conflict

The first step in addressing conflict is to confront it head-on. Avoiding conflict may seem easier in the short term, but it often leads to more significant issues down the line. God acknowledges that conflict is a part of life, and He encourages us not to fear it.

By facing conflict, we can seek resolution and healing. Jesus exemplified this in His life, addressing challenges directly and with grace. Embracing the presence of the Prince of Peace allows us to navigate difficult conversations with courage.

Second Step: Obedience to God’s Instructions

Once we decide to confront conflict, the next step is to listen to God’s guidance. Obedience to His instructions can lead us toward resolution. This may involve having difficult conversations or taking actions that align with His will.

God instructed Joseph and Mary to flee to Egypt to avoid Herod’s wrath. Their obedience ensured their safety and allowed them to fulfill their purpose. Each of us has the opportunity to seek God’s direction and act in obedience, paving the way for peace.

Third Step: The Power of Prayer

Prayer is a powerful tool in addressing conflict. Philippians 4:6-7 reminds us to present our requests to God and trust in His peace, which transcends understanding. When we bring our conflicts before Him, we invite His peace into our circumstances.

Prayer not only helps us to find peace but also empowers us to face our conflicts with a renewed spirit. By casting our anxieties onto God, we can experience a sense of completeness even amidst turmoil.

Conclusion and Call to Action

This Christmas, let us not allow conflict to overshadow the joy of the season. Embrace the types of conflict you may encounter, face them with courage, and seek God’s guidance through obedience and prayer.

As we celebrate the birth of our Saviour, remember that He is the Prince of Peace. Allow His peace to reign in your heart and home, and take proactive steps to resolve any conflicts that arise. Share this message with others, and encourage them to seek peace during this blessed season.